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IS IT TIME TO ENLIVEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? <3
Relationships can be so mind-blowingly incredible, right?
When things are going well in our relationship we feel full of energy. We feel truly loved, understood and appreciated.
We’re savouring ever-deepening layers of delicious intimacy, orgasmic pleasure and epic sex that bring us a sense of aliveness and immense satisfaction in all areas of our lives.
We’re amazed and grateful that we somehow managed to score the best person in the world to be in relationship with.
We’re basically living on a f**king cloud of bliss and it’s amazing.
Yummm… who doesn’t want that all the time!?
Often it’s just not that simple though, is it?
We tell ourselves that the magical-cloud-life can’t last. We’ve got work / kids / financial stress / health issues / stuff to do / businesses to run. We’re tired, exhausted even. Life is demanding.
And as we all know, relationships are not exactly sunsets and rainbows all the time
(kinda different to the movies, right?)
They can also be damn challenging sometimes. Painful. Stressful. Even confusing.
We can slip into patterns of relating where we don’t always see the best in each other and over time things become a bit less, ummm….juicy… than they were at the start.
Even when there’s so much love there, sometimes things in the sex and intimacy department can easily get a bit flat, or routine (or even non-existent!).
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Introducing our Yoniverse Couples Retreat in NOVEMBER!! We're taking bookings now - there's only space for 10 couples and there's a LOT of interest so do get in touch SOON if you'd like to chat and find out if it's right for you and your partner!
SO EXCITED about my new website.... I'm loving creating it step by step, and although I need some tech support with various bits, it's sooo enjoyable to make it how I want it.
I'll be releasing it sooooon!! <3
Our age-defying REDEFINE Lip Renewing Serum just got a makeover! ?Moisturizing ingredients, including Shea butter, now complement the Vitamin E and Peptides in the formula you know and love to target the appearance of lip lines and wrinkles #orderingnow #rodanandfields #lipserum #skincare
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YES. What we call 'modern science' can be based on certain worldviews or belief systems, and we are expected to just accept these as FACT, rather than a belief system or a worldview.
We jut hit 500 members in Yoni Club TODAY!
If you are a woman with a vaglna... this is your online community to share and learn about all things related to:
*Libido / arousal
*Fertility & Birth
*Vaglna stuff in general
*Medical experiences related to your Yoni
*Pleasure / Orgasm
*Sexual shame / trauma / disconnection
No judgement, just support and sisterhood juju. Join us! <3
I'm not super into the whole Valentine's commercialism thing.... but I am into celebrating love in all its glorious forms - and im just now landing back on earth after an epic celebration of love (aka wedding) on Saturday with this wonderful man... <3 Photos and stories to come of all the magic... I'm still digesting!
<3 <3 <3 HAPPY LOVE DAY! <3 <3 <3
For today only at the Yoniverse, we're offering 25% off ALL our epic workshops and masterclasses all over Australia. If the earlybird price is still up that means you get 25% off THAT... Wow!
If you've been on the fence about attending these real sex ed events for adults - NOW is your moment of glory!
We're in Melbourne, Brisbane, Perth, Byron, Sydney and Sunshine Coast in the next little while... see our website for dates and details:
theyoniverse (dot) com
MENS MASTERCLASS - For men who love women...
Pleasure, Anatomy, Orgasm, Relating, Touch, Intimacy - and LIVE demonstration of a Yoni Massage so you can learn how to offer it to an intimate partner! (as well as lots of other home practices) Almost 500 men have done this masterclass so far and we've heard so much GREAT feedback from many of their partners... ;-)
WOMEN'S WORKSHOP - For women...
Self love, Embodiment, Pleasure, Orgasm, Anatomy and lots of amazing practices to take home to feel more connected to your body and your sexuality. A whole day with a bunch of other awesome women, learning stuff we were never properly taught (It's normal to be nervous, but we're good at making it all feel natural and safe!)
Hope to catch you at one of the events soon! xx
You know you're delirious when you write the word CHOCOLATE and then stare at it for ages thinking:
"Ummm... I'm SURE it's not spelled like that!
C-H-O-C-O-L-A-T-E ... Hrmm... Yeah I guess it's right then."
I basically can't not share most of Vanessa's posts... This one rings so true for me. We're not meant to be doing it all alone. I couldn't do HALF of what I do without the support of my community, my sisters and my husband. And it's often deeply nourishing for me to be able to support others too. <3
How are your CLITERACY levels? Are you CLITERATE?
This is a great mainstream project about the awesomeness of the clitoris - through HuffPost.
For me there's a few layers of response when I see things like this.
1. Yay for more vaglna stuff becoming more accessible in the mainstream!
2. Yay for high quality content that is beautiful and well produced and impeccably researched about said vaglna stuff!
3. Argh I'd love for it to not ALL be about the clitoris though, as there are soooo many other areas that are related to pleasure that we don't actually discover if we're all clit-centric.
4. Omg seriously - that old fact again?!?
"As many as three quarters of women can’t orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. In fact, just eight percent of women can reliably orgasm this way, studies estimate."
I get the research.
I get that there was a STUDY where women were asked how they orgasm and roughly 75% of them said they didn't orgasm through penetration. Which is likely to be fact.
Yes. That's all clear.
What DOESN'T make sense to me is the logic behind it.
"So boss, the results of the survey are in. 75% of female respondants said they do not currently experience orgasm during penetration."
"Right, then let's tell them all it's NOT POSSIBLE and most women CAN'T orgasm during penetration and that most women NEED direct clitoral stimulation to 'reach' orgasm."
THIS is in fact one of the greatest myths perpetuated by so-called modern research.
MY THEORY AND EXPERIENCE...
Based on spending thousands upon thousands of hours literally INSIDE the vagina - as well as working with thousands of women 1:1 in talk therapy and coaching focused on pelvic wellness, pleasure, orgasm etc... (not even factoring in the amount of time I've likely spent in orgasmic bliss over the years)
Here's what I have to say:
Accessing many varied kinds of orgasm is NOT a special thing reserved for a small percentage of the population.
If you don't currently experience it, it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It just means you haven't fully learned that skill yet / explored the fullness of what's possible.
It's actually GOOD NEWS. It's exciting!
New adventures await.... if you're into epic pleasure, that is.
So I've started an awesome club for women with vaginas to learn more about this stuff... to share together and to get to know our WHOLE amazing pelvic space... YONI CLUB!
Join us here:
Wow... can't wait to see this! An incredible film made by Ian Alexander - Amplify HER explores the rising women of the electronic music scene as they come-of-age amidst the emerging cultural renaissance of the feminine. Yes! The feminine is RISING!
Showing THIS Sunday at the Bruns picture house... local loves, check it!
Major blockages that many women have towards experiencing EPIC pleasure in their lives... and my favourite practices and approaches to open your body to experience more 0rgasmic bliss,
mind-blowing pleasure and generally good juju. <3
It's HERE! It's actually real and here!
Download my debut single from my upcoming album - Unhear This.
I'm so grateful to people who have supported this vision. In a gesture of that gratitude I'm offering free downloads of the track for the next 48 hours.
The journey to getting this single out has been long and quite a lot incredible process of defining and refreshing the vision.
The incredible Fahad Abdulaal and Joe Oppenheimer have been eternally patient with my fussiness and need for changes to what they bring.
I really see this piece as a collaborative effort. The vibes of the music is like nothing I would have created myself and that is such an incredible feeling. To feel such a fresh new feeling for this piece.
One track down... Now for the rest of the album to surface. The best way to follow the progress of the album is to follow me on instagram. Www.instagram.com/fleassymalay
Sending heaps of love and gratitude, now stop reading and download that track!
Looking for a ride for 3 people and stuff to earth frequency from mullumbimby. Friday.
Anyone got connections?Looking for a ride for 3 people and stuff to earth frequency from mullumbimby. Friday.
Anyone got connections?
"I want this time to be like birds caressing each other with delicate wings, like eagles mating in freefall, clenched in each other's talons, turning spirals as they drop to earth." Excerpt from Walking to Mercury - by Starhawk .
When I read this quote my whole body ached. Yes. Yes to the divine surrender, the spiralling plumet towards earth filled with bliss and devotion.
Yes to lovers made of want and wing. Yes to touch feather soft and talons tight and gripping.
It reminds me also of one of my favourite Rumi piece:
"let us be like two falling stars in the day sky
Let no one know of our sublime beauty
As we hold hands with God
Into a sacred existence
That defies - that surpasses
Every description of ecstasy and love."
This is where my book, Sex and God, came from. That place of incomprehensible longing for ultimate and divine surrender and union...a longing for connection...to... Something. .
#yes #divineunion #divinelovers #sexpositive #sexandgod #walkingtomercury #starhawk #rumi #rumipoem #poetry #poet #eroticpoetry #devotionalpoetry
This is one of my favourite TED talks.
...why? Because it is funny, insightful and so in line with the work I do. What I love about what Sarah does is that I don't ever feel like she is "impersonating" anyone... Every character feels like her. It's another part of her.
To the point where I actually struggle to know which voice is HER voice... Because they are all her.
I feel we are often told we have to be one thing, one person, one story. Its bullshit. We are made of everyone who we have ever met and more. Built on their influence mixed with our own personality and spirit. We are made of every experience we have ever had. That exists within us.
I really believe that we have the capacity to tap into our sides, our selves, and use them to gain more insight into who we are.
And also use them to tell captivating and empowered stories.
In just over a week I am embarking on VERSE2 which is the level two version of SpeakUP. In this program we focus on Character and World Building. How to captivate an audience using these tools whilst retaining our authenticity and honesty.
Do you want to stand out with your performance and speaking?
Usually I only make this program available to people who have done SpeakUp but this round I am considering opening it up to general public.
If you are interested to hear more about Verse2 then reply with TELL ME more and I will be in contact. I only run this program once a year.
When I write my poetry it comes often from a place of longing. My book, Sex and God, really brought this to light for me. When I steped back from those two subject matters (and the spaces where they overlap) I realised that what drives my need to create is a deep longing for connection.
Perhaps it is the ultimate wounding. The severing from the mother, the womb, the expulsion out and the cutting away from the cord of life and connection, that leaves us with this insatiable desire to find connection...or perhaps that is just our fate. To be consistently hungering to feel united with something... Other humans, a lover, a concept, God, art, music, substances or anything else. .
When I approach my performance and my public speaking it is this truth which I hold on to. No matter how afraid I feel, how seperate from the audience or their demographic... I know that the ultimate thing we all hunger for is connection. If I can offer that, then I have done my work.